While I recognize there are important presuppositions that need to be assessed in this debate I think as a beginning we should grant some level of respect to those who disagree with us simply for the sake of carrying on a rational conversation and because every person is valuable because they are made in the image of God and should be treated as such. So in an attempt to avoid undue anger and insults I think we can find some common ground in our motivations for being pro-life or pro-abortion.
Those on the side of pro-abortion would argue that it is a woman's right to do what she wants with her body and also that they are concerned for women's health. On the side of the pro-lifers is also the belief that women have rights but also that the young human life inside her also has rights. So we both agree that there are certain things that people are allowed to do. Also on the pro-life side is the belief that women's health should be a priority but also that the health of the young human life inside her be considered, and even be granted the same measure, because all human life is valuable.
Maybe if we begin by recognizing that we both agree that rights are important and that we both are concerned with people's health, perhaps then we can begin to discuss the issues.
From here we can move on to disagreements about such things as when human life and human rights begins. By using some common sense I think we can establish that what we're talking about at human conception is both human and alive. There are only so many qualifying categories and so either it's alive, dead, or some kind of inanimate object. Progress in science has revealed to us a world of molecules and atoms and protons and so defining what life is can be complicated considering all the intricacies and philosophical presuppositions. But generally we don't qualify things like rocking chairs and fence posts and coffee cups as alive or dead, they're just sitting around kinds of things. Things that are alive move and eat and metabolize, and we can always recognize something that is dead by the fact that it used to be alive but now isn't.Those on the side of pro-abortion would argue that it is a woman's right to do what she wants with her body and also that they are concerned for women's health. On the side of the pro-lifers is also the belief that women have rights but also that the young human life inside her also has rights. So we both agree that there are certain things that people are allowed to do. Also on the pro-life side is the belief that women's health should be a priority but also that the health of the young human life inside her be considered, and even be granted the same measure, because all human life is valuable.
Maybe if we begin by recognizing that we both agree that rights are important and that we both are concerned with people's health, perhaps then we can begin to discuss the issues.
In human conception there is an egg--which by common sense is a living thing--and a sperm--which by common sense is a living thing (and I know of no successful conception using dead ones) so do you think the product of conception is alive or dead? If it continues the natural process from conception eventually is born an infant human child--which supposes that it was a living human entity earlier on because nothing else is ever born a living human child except living human children.
I think some understanding can be found considering that it was more of a mystery what exactly happened at conception before the science and technology caught up, but the sciences have really caught up so that nobody can deny anymore that the product of a human conception is obviously human and alive. Anyone who says differently is very under-educated on these things or depending on an education from a long time ago, or they're in some kind of strange denial of the obvious, or they might be replacing common sense with politics because it suits their purpose. No matter what your motivations you can't argue reasonably that anytime between conception and birth it's something other than living and human or that there's a point in time when suddenly it becomes alive and human. Everything is alive before the conception, everything is alive at and during the conception, and everything is alive after the conception and either it's human or it's something else--and nobody reasonable is really claiming that it's something else.

